Friday, February 25, 2011

Morality in Humanity

In life you face many challenges and events which either makes you very sad or very happy,either way the point is ,both leads to the same result...."you learn from that particular experience"!!It's easy to trust many fake personalities or worse... destructive one's.I'm sure many of you who are reading this blog will know what i'm talking about.Sometimes you're hurt because you might've trusted the wrong person or made the wrong choice in your actions....it really hurts doesn't it,to know how wrong you can be about people whom you think you have known all your life???
 Let me tell you then that life is just so.Nothing you can do will ever change  your notion that you even have a chance of changing humanity.Point no.1:No matter what you do to get people to like you that will not entirely happen nor can you shut silly rumors because whether you're an angel straight from heaven or something even better either way people will always be talking about you in a"bad" way..So the best thing you can do is just relax and be yourself.Never feel sorry for yourself but be sorry for those who have caused you "a moment's grief" because of their own insecurities and naivety! The world is a small place indeed!!!
 Maybe it's silly to write about this or  unnecessary even but i believe if you share such things maybe you might learn to be more careful in future ,or it might even wake you up and make you start wondering about a lot of things which you might've never noticed before.But just so you know life does go on and ,maybe you can't imagine it now but one day you will be able to learn to forgive.It's really dumb when i hear people say"forgive and forget",because you might forget a lot of pleasant events but the one which needs forgiving..that you will never forget no matter how hard you try. That doesn't mean you will never stop hating or hurting but as the years will pass along then time will eventually soften your pain so that what you will feel will be as close to forgetting about the things that makes you sad..It's a fact that life will never satisfy you ..but when you are proved of this fact through certain situations in your life all i wanna say is that you don't ever give up on yourself or your dreams...nobody is worth doing that for, even in your most upsetting case.Remember this is about you and your life..you have the control and those are your dreams ...you're special and if that makes you stand out in a weird way..so be it!!!

  

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Of Life and Respect....

did you ever wonder for even a tiny fraction of a second in your busy schedule about life and its delicacy..????well too much free time has got me wondering about it a lot..every morning that i open the newspaper i read about people being killed or see  pictures of mutilated corpses.everyday the same question pops up in my head...what right does anyone have in this world to take away from someone his life which we could never give in the first place!!! Isn't it  wrong even to kill animals because by killing them we are taking something special from them.."their life".so come to think about it aren't humans and animals all the same ???so why is it that we think so little and have such unsympathetic feelings when we kill them , aren't they living things too,with god given life????
     Every living being is unique and special in their own way.People have a wrong way of trying to gain respect for themselves in this world.It's so obvious if you just look around you.But in my opinion a person can only have the respect he deserves if and only if he has respect  for his fellow beings and for humanity as a whole.Respect might come with job or  your social status but if there is no empathy for those who might be lesser than your status then i would ask you the question...is what you think you're having really called respect?? It might be survival of the fittest or so they say that helps us survive in this world..true to some extent yet we all need each other to survive so what is the use of having all that fame and glory without that "inner respect" !!
    So it all comes back to the same thing...LIFE! We have no guarantee that we'll live forever or whether we might die tomorrow.So when you get up in the morning and you open your eyes and take that first breath,be grateful that you've been given another day to live and not just take that gift for granted because when you go and look at that morning paper you"ll  see those unfortunate  few that have been denied that gift.LIFE so delicate...why should anyone take that away from the other. Cherish your life and of your fellow men because if it's ever taken from you nothing you can do will ever get it back...and when the time comes when you"ll have to let go of it there will never be regret  but only peace!!!